Fatherhood for the Future

Michael Louvring-Carsh is one of the youngest guests at the Eugene Mission, but he may be the wisest.

Mike came to the Mission after an addiction and his housing situation made him realize he needed help to move forward. He also realized that he would need to change if he wanted to be the kind of father he desired to be for his young child. He said he was fearful at first, and unsure what to think of the Mission’s programs, people and structured living, but after a few months, his attitude changed to gratitude and peace.

“We’re all very close here; we look out for each other,” he shared. “If you have any hope in your mind that this is going to be a help for you, you should take it.”

When Mike was fearful of a relapse, he followed advice to take time off from work and see a counselor. Every step of the way, from performing his Life Skills to working through his challenges, he has followed guidance, put in the effort and maintained a hopeful, positive attitude. “I’m so grateful I even get to see my child,” he shared. “I’m blessed to have gotten sober and to have time to work on myself.”

He has grown so much and developed a humility that allows him to put himself in others’ shoes and demonstrate compassion. “I want to show people they deserve to be heard,” he said. “They think they don’t deserve it because of what they’ve done, but we’re all brothers in this situation.”

Mike said he feels a strong sense of hope here, especially with all the resources that are available, and is looking forward to his future.

Congrats Mike!